A 3 Step Process To Becoming

A 3 step process to becoming was a thought I stumbled upon last week when I was battling myself with my thoughts. I am writing this with hopes I am not the only one who experiences this painful and exhausting process of reliving shameful situations. When we make mistakes and relive them over and over and over in our minds, shaming yourself and thinking of ways it could have gone differently. Why do we do this, we can not change what was done, we can not change the past. We do not realize how much energy we are expelling towards something that can not be changed. How can we stop this process? Great question, it is the one I asked myself for days, after reliving an embarrassing scenario. After several days of emotional exhaustion, my mind finally put the pieces together.

1. Acknowledge the thought: when a negative thought enters your mind before you get angry at yourself for thinking it. Acknowledge it, embrace it and face it DO NOT ignore it. This gives us the control of the thought. This is a very uncomfortable action, so do not be scared when you feel the discomfort. It is ok, stay focused on it.

2. Learn from it: After acknowledging the thought process it, break it down, chew on it, but do not go shaming yourself. This is the most powerful and difficult step! This is where life lessons come from, really take the time to digest this step. What did you learn from your actions, reaction, consequence, and/or actions/reactions consequences from others? Turn your shameful situation to something you can learn and share to become a better you. You may find yourself here for a while, that is perfectly ok, take your time and enjoy your lesson.

3. Be Aware: The average adult understands we do not change overnight, we may need to be reminded of this when our patience runs thin but it is a concept we understand. During your shaming phase, you will find yourself having that thought creep in your mind and mental space frequently. You may notice a slight or big change in your demeanor, such as feel hot, anxious, insecure and many other feelings. Ok, this is challenging! But it is completely normal, we are emotional beings. Embrace these feelings because they are YOUR emotions, but remind yourself you are not here forever. Go back to step 1, acknowledge it and then when ready go to step 2 what did you learn from it?

4. Replace thought with a positive life changing lesson learned: When you have reached this step you have mastered steps 1, 2, and 3 individually and collectively. You have accepted and embraced your once shameful situation with a lesson learned which in the long run makes you a better you! CONGRATS!!!!

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-Cheers to your success-

-If you do not like something in your life change it, because we have the power to change nothing inside us is bad- Damaris

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Digital Gold Rush

Most of us have heard of the famous California Gold Rush that occurred in the 1800’s, but have you heard about the Digital Gold Rush? The digital gold rush is the outcome of the birth of the internet and the dependency of technology. The digital gold rush, in my words, is the time of opportunity for you to create something new and never heard that has the potential for you to reap financial benefit. How in the world you may ask, a normal response I can had the same quite honestly.

We are (and have been for a while) in the information age, the time where knowledge is not just power but a craving, desire and need. ANYTHING we want to know is now at our fingertips. This is powerful and this is the future. Have you ever heard of online marketing or online affiliate marketing back in the 90’s? If so, you were one of the very very very few who were exposed to that.

Times and technology are leading us to a different style of life. Can you imagine working from home, at the park, by the beach or even from a boat? We live in a time where this is possible, the age of brick and mortar is slowly dying, just look at all of the stores that have and continue to close nationwide if not worldwide.

The Digital Gold Rush is at your reach all you have to do is expose and educate yourself. Your dream lifestyle is just choices away. Give time, the time to teach, give yourself the time to learn.

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-Cheers to your success- We will always be searching for more because we are entrepreneurs-Damaris

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Home Based Business Lead Gerneration

Those of us who are in a home based business understand the importance of lead generation. As a matter of fact, every business owner understands this. Without customers, we have no business. As an owner of a few businesses, one of them being network marketing, I have had the uncomfortable experience of writing a list of friends and family to contact who can benefit from a product or service. I personally like to inform my friends and family of what kinds of projects I am working on in my businesses, just in case they may know someone who can benefit. But actually having to try to sell them is just not my thing. Especially as an entrepreneur who has tried several different products and services.

Thankfully technology has advanced and has come to save us business owners. From a push of a button, you can activate an ad or an email and promote it to millions of people worldwide (depending on the constrictions of your product or service). The best 2 parts of this, in my opinion, is you are removing yourself from the process and people that WANT your product or service come to you. How amazing is that?

Now, the first thing you are thinking is “I am not tech savvy” or “I am not going back to school”. Well, I have an answer for both you skeptics, we will teach you EVERYTHING you need to know and do. Yes, there is actually a course available and get you up and running. Home Based Business Lead Generation is the absolute foundation of any business. Are you catching up with the new times of how to run a business or are you stuck in the past?

Which direction do you want your business to go? An automated Home Based Business Lead Generation or stuck in the 90’s methods?

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-Cheers to your success- Damaris

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What do you want to change?

What do you want to change? What daily habits do you have or do not have that are keeping you from living your “dream” life? Many of us are fed the daily dose of “success is HARD work”. Success is a few daily habits you commit to. Will those daily habits be easy? NO! Some will seem almost impossible at the beginning of your journey, then out of the blue one day, it will be a little easier than the last. Some days you will be happy, excited and motivated and other days making those choices will be difficult and a struggle. Now, this is when you must focus on your end goal and your personal why, your reason, to push you to make those daily choices.

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What do you want to change? Maybe the better question is what do you want? or what do you lack? What do you want so bad that you would be willing to make some small changes in your daily schedule? Do you want the time freedom to travel, to spend with your family, to spend with your spouse, to spend with your children? Do you want financial freedom where there is more money than there is a month? Money to put aside for your children’s education/future? Money for your dream wedding? Money to travel to your dream destination? Money to buy your dream home? Money to buy your dream car?
What do you want to change? What are you willing to do, for what you want? These are very difficult questions and even more difficult are the answers. Take time to answer these questions. Take time to meditate on them.

There is still time for you to live your dream life! You only have to make the right investment: yourself and your future!

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-Cheer to your success-

Damaris

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Global Internet Entrepreneur

What is a Global Internet Entrepreneur? The world has 7.125 Billion people living in it per google “Back-of-the-envelope calculation: Census data from Page on census.gov says there were roughly 4 million 13-year-old children in USA in 2010. They’re turning 18 this year, and assuming uniform distribution of birthdays, so dividing by 365 gives you roughly 11k. 11,000 would be the answer then for the USA.”

There are roughly 4 million people will turn 18 this year alone, next year it may increase. I mentioned these numbers to help you understand the BIG PICTURE. The internet has made it possible for us to reach beyond our traditional methods of communication. We have the ability to have a video conversation with someone across the world, something we used to only dream about while watching “the Jetsons” or “Back to the Future”. This is now our reality, are you maximizing and leveraging this amazing ability to your benefit? If your answer is no, I genuinely recommend you continue reading and engaging.

Have you taken the time to slow down and see how technology has changed, impacted and transformed our lives? It has done so in multiple avenues, especially business. Watch this short video to help put this in perspective.

I am a visual learner, I needed this video to help me expand my frame of thinking. I hope it did the same for you. Think of your childhood; how you communicated, how you interacted, how you learned and how you thought. I am willing to bet everything that it has changed dramatically! There are people who believe the digital age has only scratched the surface of impact. Google technology in 2020 and see all the predictions of how life will change. We are in full the transition into the digital age. Will you maximize and leverage all the opportunities available?

There are so many opportunities for us entrepreneurs to become Global Internet Entreprenuers. Can you imagine running a worldwide business from your laptop from anywhere in the world? I know I can, something that was one just a dream is now people’s realities. Are you living a life where you are excited to wake up, go to work and service the world with your talents and skills? If you are then congratulations! If you are part of the group that isn’t there yet but would like to be, just take a minute to believe it can happen first. If you can imagine it, how does it feel? What do you envision? What does a regular for you look like?

For more information on how you can become a global internet entrepreneur and learn how I was able to do it please click the link below:

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-Cheers to your success-

-Damaris

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Not all who wonder are lost…

Have you ever woken up, business as usual and say to yourself ” there has to be more to life”? This has been my question since I graduated college and “real adulting” hit me. I went to grade school, got through middle school and managed through high school and finally followed through with college. I did everything I was told to do for a “successful” life. Then I was given a piece of paper granting me access to the “real world”. This piece of paper dictated my level of knowledge, profession, language, class and direction. Only in my world, it was an expensive monthly payment way more than I could afford, with a few skills I learned from late night cramming and social events.  Continue reading Not all who wonder are lost…